What to Read... and NOT to Read! This Year's Library List Run-Down So Far... Book Reviews in Miniature - Some Free On Kindle!

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Inspired by Little Gold Pixel, whose monthly "what I've been reading" book review posts I always enjoy, here's a summary of my reading this year so far... I love recommendations, so if you have something unforgettable for me, please mention it in the comments section!

A few caveats..  I was cleaning off my bookshelves knowing that a big move was coming up this summer, so a number of these are re-reads.  I also was clearing out my personal "classroom library collection" so I read a number of kids books as well, which are not included here.  I also didn't include books about puppies/dog training, which I will post soon separately. 

As for the rest, they're arranged below roughly in order of how much I liked them.  :)  A number are currently free on kindle, so keep an eye open for those!


When You Reach Me by Rebecca Stead
YA, Mystery, Time-Travel, Coming of Age
Read!  No matter your age!
This book should be read by every teen/preteen/tween on the planet, and by every adult who loved Madeleine L'Engle as a child.  A Wrinkle in Time features in the plot of the story itself, and this book carries the L'Engle mantle well.  (We miss you, Madeleine, rest in peace... oh geez, now I'm crying)  Suffice to say, it's a subtle time travel novel with such a good soul... easy and memorable read. 

The Woman in White by Wilkie Collins
Classics, Mystery, Suspense, Romance
Read! 
This Victorian author is best known for his novel The Moonstone -- usually considered one of the first English-language detective novels -- and The Woman in White is written in a similarly creepy vein.  I bought this book in Spain years ago as a study abroad student, and enjoyed it then with a very uncritical eye.  Reading it again now, I was struck by the male/female stereotypes, entirely typical of the time, that are scattered throughout the book.  The author chose to narrate the book through different characters' eyes, one of them a strong woman character, and her strength is constantly described as "manly"... she is "steady as a man," "with a man's fortitude" etc.  She even decries that she is only "a weak woman" several times (and needless to say, the hero never considers her a possible love interest, falling in love with her wispy, fainting, more appropriately "delicate" sister instead).  However, having a strong woman character in the novel, and giving her voice as a narrator, were both undoubtedly progressive acts for a male author at the time.  This would be an awesome book to analyze for a college lit class, haha!  That aside, it is still a gripping and intricate suspense novel.  At the end, I swear you'll be like, "Sheesh, they should have just killed her for real..."  Come back and tell me if I'm wrong!

Magnificent Obsession by Lloyd Douglas
Romance, Bad-Boy-Makes-Good
Read (if you don't mind a bit of preachy)
This 1929 novel follows a rich, self-centered young man who tries to follow in the footsteps of the brilliant brain surgeon whose death he inadvertently caused... and then finds himself in a sticky situation when he falls in love with the man's widow.  An interesting philosophical system of secret acts of kindness ensuring a successful, happy life for the doer is expounded throughout... a sort of Christian-tinged karma.  It is an intriguing novel and a sweet love story.

Crazy Little Things by Tracy Brogan.  
Romance, Beach Fiction
Read (if you enjoy a fun beachy romance)
This is a lighthearted story about a divorcee with children (and a super quirky aunt) rediscovering love  -- witty, lively writing, with a beach background that makes for perfect on-location vacation read.. or if you didn't make it to the beach this year, and want to experience it second-hand, and sans sunscreen.  Entertaining and easy-breezy read.

Clutterfree with Kids by Joshua Becker.  
Minimalism, Simplicity Living, Parenting
Read (if you have kids and/or interest in a simple / minimalist lifestyle)
Now, full disclosure, I do not have kids.  But my bestie, who shares my fascination with achieving a simple / minimalist lifestyle and who DOES have a kid, lent me this book.  Future in mind (my mom is going to be so excited when she reads this, and will probably try to hold me to this one sentence as a solemn vow), I enjoyed this exploration of how to balance children and modern life with simplicity and priority-based living.  This guy swears it is possible to live minimally, even with a houseful of bambinos, and he sure makes it seem possible!  Can't vouch for it myself personally yet, but you should definitely check this book out for lots of inspiration and good advice.


Fluency by Jennifer Foehner Wells. 
Sci-Fi, Adventure, Romance
Read! (unless you hate sci-fi)
Fluency is a surprisingly smart sci-fi novel centering around a linguist who has been hired by NASA to travel into space with a group of astronauts.  Their destination, an alien spacecraft that was seemingly abandoned in an astroid belt way back in the 1940s.  As a linguist, she has been brought along to learn from the artifacts that remain on the ship, Rosetta Stone style.  But is the alien ship truly abandoned, or does something lurk there, awaiting their arrival?  It got a little convoluted towards the end (the dream sequences started to be a little much for me), but I'm still looking forward to the sequel.

The Man with Two Left Feet And Other Stories by PG Wodehouse. 
Humor, Classics, British Fiction, Short Story Collection
Read
This isn't the best example of prolific British humorist PG Wodehouse's work (he is most famous as author of the Jeeves books -- if you want a mind-bender, check out the old BBC Jeeves shows staring "Dr Gregory House" as flutter-brained Bertie!), but it is pretty good nonetheless.  This is an enjoyable collection of funny short stories, finding humor in unlikely happenstance and elaborate turn of phrase.  Added plus, it's a free download for kindle.  ;)


This Is Where I Leave You by Jonathan Tropper.  
Contemporary Fiction, Dark Humor, Family Drama
Read (if you don't mind crass)
This darkly humorous novel (now a movie, starring Tina Fey, Jason Bateman, and lots of other seriously funny people) dishes out the crass in generous amounts... but alternates with profound moments and really moving one-liners.  Basically, the plot is that a large, non-observant Jewish family all come home to sit shiva for their deceased father, and various and sundry familial chaos ensues.  Aside from the half-assed "drive off into the sunset" ending (pretty sure the author just didn't know how to wrap things up without being cheesy), it's worth reading.

Cupcakes, Trinkets, and Other Deadly Magic by Meghan Ciana Doidge. 
Fantasy, Mystery
Read (if you like witchy/warewolvie/vampirey type books) 
This is a fun and playful take on a magicky contemporary universe, along the lines of Twilight or Vampire Diaries or-- well, take your pick, it's a popular genre right now.  I say "fun and playful" but then, it is a murder mystery, so there's that.  The upbeat half-witch narrator, as well as plenty of scenes in yoga class and the cupcake bakery, help to keep things light.  You'll totally see the ending coming, but it is still an entertaining airplane read... and currently free for kindle!

A Fairly Honourable Defeat (Penguin Twentieth Century Classics), by Iris Murdoch. 
British Fiction
Read (if you like philosophy and can handle depressing -- otherwise Don't Read.)
The title, speaking of defeats that aren't quite honorable, should have been a clue, but it had been a long time since I read this book and I had completely forgotten how meanderingly depressing it is.(this one was carted from move to move as well, shhh!)  Set in the 1960s with a large cast of characters, this story of complicated lives and lies intersecting in London forever changes everyone involved...  And you definitely don't see this ending coming!  Some of the characters will drive you crazy, and I'd be surprised if anybody made it through the book without growing thoroughly attached to Simon and Axel...  there are also some moving passages about life and love, and plenty of philosophical material to chew on throughout, if you're up to it. 


Lady of Devices: A steampunk adventure novel by Shelley Adina. 
Fantasy, Steampunk, Adventure
Read (if you have time on your hands)
This is an enjoyable novel about a free-thinking young society lady who loses her fortune and becomes the underworld / blackmarket queen of London, thanks to her penchant for building steam-devices and concocting chemical potions.  The story ends too soon and doesn't really feel "finished," (typical of self-published serial novels, where they're angling for you to buy the rest of the series) but hey, it was still a lot of fun and it is free for kindle!  I might even buy the second one, at some point.

Simple Living - 30 days to less stuff and more life by Lorilee Lippincott. 
Self-Help, Simplicity Living, Minimalism
Read
Good starting place for someone new to the topic of simple living / minimalism.  Different tasks / focus for each of 30 days... organizing tips, etc.

Stress proof your life (52 Brilliant Ideas) by Elisabeth Wilson. 
Self-Help, Simplicity Living
Read
Tips and inspiration for living simply and breaking free of the stress cycle -- some are good, some are meh.  Definitely worth a skim, if you're in a stressful place in your life right now.

Maids of Misfortune: A Victorian San Francisco Mystery by M. Louise Lodge. 
Mystery, Historical Fiction
Don't Read (unless you like Victorian era mysteries... and are tolerant about the quality of your reading material)
This somewhat meandering mystery story features Annie, a strong-willed boarding house owner, who doubles as a clairvoyant to get away with dispensing business advice to MEN in the Victorian era (oh the audacity...).  When one of her clients is murdered, Annie goes under cover as a servant in his family's household, determined to discover who was responsible for the foul deed.  Some very contrived plot twists, and the author drags other parts out much longer than necessary, but I found the characters colorful and engaging, so I kept reading.  You'll see this ending coming too, though maybe not quite so... dramatically.  Rolling the bad guy up in a carpet is one way to bring him to justice!  *rolls eyes*  In other good news, it was (and is) free for kindle!

How To Declutter And Simplify Your Life by Kathy Stanton. 
Self-Help, Simplicity Living
Nah, skip this one.
Reading books about minimalist living has become kind of like consuming mental comfort food for me... I find them really pleasant and soothing when I have insomnia, even when they aren't well written or very original.  I'm much less critical when it is very late at night, haha.  Why yes, tell me again the six reasons why I should organize... and then maybe some ideas I've heard before about making my home beautiful and clutter free...


A Slip In Timeby Kathleen Kirkwood.  
Romance, Time-Travel
Don't Read (unless you really like romance or/or time travel and are tolerant about the quality of your reading material)
This is technically what I would call a bodice-ripper (you know, those romance novels they sell at Kroger...) but has the added benefit of being a time-travel novel.  It's mildly entertaining (but also predictable and often annoying) story about a girl in the 1800s finding a "slip in time" that transports her to the 1400s and introduces her to a (sexy) Scottish laird.  And of course, they must overcome time and great difficulties to be together, yada yada.  Not terrible, for what it is... at least there was an actual story line!

His Dark Kiss by Eve Silver. 
Romance, (Attempted) Gothic Suspense 
DON'T READ.
I am embarrassed to even admit I read (some) of this one and I just want to say right now that when I downloaded it, it was free, and that's about all anyone should pay for this... TOTAL bodice-ripper.  Described as a gothic suspense story, with shades of Jane Eyre, it was just... exasperating.  I started skipping chunks because reading it in its entirety was so insupportable (said in my best Elizabeth Bennet voice), but I still wanted to find out what was inside the creepy tower...  My critiques include... jumbled plot, totally manipulated characters to have a surprise bad guy, an annoying heroine, and anachronistic dialogue... the heroine kept saying she wanted to make a difference in her student's life... how 21st century sounding is that?  I didn't really like any of it -- even what was inside tower was more unnecessarily gross than creepy.  Oh well. 

In summary.... you should definitely read When You Reach Me and The Woman in White!  A bunch there in the middle you might love or hate depending on the genres you enjoy, and if you pay money for His Dark Kiss I will not be friends with you any more.  Sorry, but it was really, really bad.

Going forward these What to Read / What Not to Read posts will be shorter, I swear!  What do you think, are there any you might give a try?  Come back and tell me your thoughts if you do!  :)

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Free Music Monday -- Sacred Harp Selection! Blues Pioneer Sampler Album - Bill Landford, Leroy Carr, more! Legal Mp3s

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This is a quick Free Music Monday today, as I am also posting a Media Monday book review post, whaaaaaat!  ;P  BUT we do have a fun download this week, so let's get to it!

Google play is offering a free album download called Blues Pioneers -- a collection of vintage recordings of blues standards, including Bill Landford,  Leroy Carr, The Blue Chips, Blind Boy Fuller, Mamie Smith, and more!  This wonderful collection is a great intro into old-timey blues, and a fun "blast from the past" for anyone who enjoys groundbreaking, historical, awesome music.

The Sacred Harp track has a dear place in my heart -- I love shape note singing!  It is communal singing at its finest, and loudest... it is simultaneously earthy and deeply spiritually... it's hard to describe, but the word often used to describe it is "rousing."  ;P  If you aren't sure what I'm talking about, the best mainstream media example I know of is from the movie Cold Mountain...



This is a real-people, real-life example... note that the first 40 seconds or so, they are not singing words, they are singing the notes to establish the melody before adding in the lyrics.  This is Sacred Harp 277, Antioch, I Know That My Redeemer Lives.


I won't try to go any further into the rich history of Sacred Harp / shape note singing (after all... I claimed this was going to be a short post... ha!) but there is a wonderful documentary called Awake, My Soul: The Story of the Sacred Harp if you are interested.   And either way, you can enjoy a shape note download of your very own, along with some other wonderful blues downloads, courtesy of Google Play today.  ;)

Have a great Monday!

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Sept 4th- Inaugural Free and Fun Friday Link-Up Blog Party! Printable and Downloadable Freebies, Plus Humorous Posts to Make us Laugh! Linkies / Linkys Here!

TOMORROW!!!!  September 4th!!!  GET READY!!!!  ;D

I don't know if y'all have noticed, but two of our favorite things here at Devastate Boredom are a) laughter and b) free stuff.  What better, thought I in a moment of SHEER inspiration, than a link-up party for others like us, who love funnies and freebies? 



So get excited, because next week we will welcome our very first FREE AND FUN FRIDAY, a link-up party featuring all kinds of bloggy fun and free stuff too!  Here's the rundown so you can know what to expect... from the FREE and the FUN!


This link party will be to highlight personal freebies, offered by the author.  Wall art, craft templates, ebooks, ecourses, clipart, wallpaper, fonts, printable games boards for kids, Mp3s, coloring pages, etc, are all welcome, as long as they are completely free, in their entirety.  Also, it is fine to link to posts showing things you have personally created/crafted using online freebies IF the original downloads are still available for free and you link clearly to the original post/author.  Giveaways are fun too!  Recipes do not count as a freebie, sorry.

We also love humorous, entertaining, lighthearted posts, that will perk up our Friday and set the weekend off on the right foot.  That crazy thing that happened last week, hilarious media reviews, pinterest disasters, chuckle-worth DIY projects... anything that will make us smile!
Basically, when it comes to  FREE and FUNNY, you are in the right place!





This party will go live at 11:30 am central time next Friday.  Follow me on twitter for instant notification!  The most-clicked items, as well as my personal favorite posts, will be featured the following week.



I can't wait... another great reason to look forward to Fridays!  :D 



Now I have to ask, what is your favorite existing blog party / link-up to attend?  What makes it extra fun?  I'm happy for any advice on how I can craft an absolutely fantastic linkies party!

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Friday Frivolity: Babies & Kids Edition -- Small Humans are Cute! And Funny! And Messy, and Sometimes Smelly!

Welcome to Friday Frivolity!  You've worked hard all week, time for a smile and a laugh, courtesy of some adorable small humans!

Oh, be still my heart... this kid is precious.  Maybe the most precious thing ever. 




Growing up is rife with so many difficult truths...


She wins all arguments. All arguments EVER.

Green beans?


 Most epic cake smash ever!


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#TBT - How to Meal Plan When You Don't Even Know How to Cook, by 2009 Sarah Eliza

Throwback Thursday!  This post first made its appearance in February of 2009... Can you tell how I'm trying to pretend that I know how to cook?  Oh how times have changed!  Be watching next week for a post about Paleo -ish meal planning and recipes... I'm a MUCH better cook now, I swear! 


"Is that egg HATCHING?" 
"Cook at home, cook at home!" We constantly hear that one of the key methods of living frugally is to whittle down expenditures in the food/restaurants/groceries department. However, that's easier said then done for many people...  In fact, the non-cooker or recent college graduate might certainly comprehend that she would save money by eating in more often, but if she's standing in front of a refrigerator that contains only yogurt, beer, french onion dip, a carton of milk, and eggs that under happier circumstances would likely be hens by now, the situation is indeed dire.  One would predict a high likelihood of a few cries of "woe is me!" and then a run to Wendy's instead of any actual options for a home-cooked meal. Even under a slightly better-case scenario, where the refrigerator might contain an actual onion instead of the onion dip, and a few oranges or a bag of slightly wilted spinach too, the frustration would probably be largely the same. A person can only eat so many spinach-and-onion omelets before breaking down and going out for a three-course meal...

In any case, grocery bills can add-up horrendously, especially during that space of time when a person takes his or her own nutritional welfare firmly in hand for the very first time and decides to make a go of "that cooking thing." In fact, this one pretty much comes down to being one of those ironic situations where you must spend money in order to save money. So! To begin. Students of frugal living, please ready your pencils.

No matter where you are in your kitchen-skills evolution, the first thing you will need to do is to make yourself a meal-guide overview for the upcoming week or two. Start slow in easing away from the more expensive/unhealthy habits you might have, making choices according to your priorities. For example, if every day you're unhappily handing over money at a food court for lunch, resolve to bring it from home the next Monday and Tuesday (starting out strong early in the week, before you can lose your enthusiasm...) and decide what will be easiest to prepare and transport without boring yourself to death with a PBandJ. Or, if you went to great lengths to avoid admitting to your coworkers at the Christmas party that your idea of cooking is EasyMac, then maybe you will choose to focus on finding some healthier options in the frozen meals / pre -prepared food category, while tentatively experimenting with cooking a few simple meals a week. A word of encouragement: "Recipe" is just another word for "directions" -- I promise! You obviously can read, as evidenced by your presence on this blog, so the most difficult part is already mastered...  ;)

Or perhaps you are slightly further along in your kitchen development.. If you already do a bit of cooking and sometimes remember bring your lunch from home, but generally find your kitchen shelves naked and depressing, and yourself aimless and uninspired when dealing with them, then the next step is to go online and click around some recipe sites. Your goal is to make a Master List of Ingredients for four or five recipes in particular... Preferably ones that overlap, at least when it comes to the perishable ingredients that might otherwise spoil forgotten in the back of your refrigerator. Begin by purchasing the ingredients for just one of the recipes, and then proceed with strategic grocery shopping to gradually build up a pantry of things that will actually be helpful to have on hand.

Once you have figured out your priorities for the week and have done any necessary recipe-research, create the meal-plan that will support your efforts. Don't view it as a strict guide, or as a taskmaster, but simply a tool to keep you aware of what food is readily available to you... hopefully helping to avoid both waste and the desperation-fueled purchase of Double-Stack Cheeseburgers at nine o'clock at night. When possible, shop sales to supplement your growing master list of ingredients, and frequently recycle these ingredients into new recipes as well. Keep the recipes that you have tried and liked in a centralized location... and if you are really inspired, develop a repertoire of four or five quick recipes that you could pretty much make in your sleep.

This approach to kitchen-life obviously requires you to sit down and do a few minutes work, and then muster the self-discipline to follow through with the plan you develop, but the nutritional and financial paybacks are well worth it. Keep it up for long enough, and it will become second nature… and onion-orange-yogurt omelets will thankfully become a thing of the long-forgotten past. 

Awww, 2009 Sarah Eliza was so cute!  We pat her patronizingly on the head!  We will see her periodically going forward.  :) 



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How to Find Your Style! Building a Minimalist Capsule Wardrobe One Step at a Time! Fashion Advice for the Rest of Us...

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Update August 2016 -- I have HUGE news for a fashion-savvy, Capsule Wardrobe lovin' girl like you!  My shiny, awesome new book Secrets of the Capsule Wardrobe:  How to Find Your Personal Style & Create a Happy, Confident Closet! is now available!!  Feel free to continue to read this post if you like, but just be aware you're basically reading an incomplete rough draft... my book is the Perfected Guide to finding your personal style and building a effortless, confidence-inspiring, non-boring capsule wardrobe, step-by-step! It also contains never-before-published information on how to avoid the three most common mistakes that will SABOTAGE your Capsule Wardrobe, how to continue to curate your collection of clothing by purposeful shopping in the future, a whole chapter on the role of accessories in your minimalist closet, and more.  Go check it out right now... a happy closet awaits you! 


Super girly post alert!  Writing today about fa-SHUN... ready to be glamorous and sophisticated with me??  First in a weekly series of six.  Already read this one?  Skip ahead to catch up on the rest!


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For a while now I've been fascinated by the idea of having a smaller, minimalist wardrobe, one that would be easy to mix -and-match and that would eliminate the "I have nothing to wear!" morning paralysis. I was inspired especially by the idea of a "happy closet" - one that I would feel comfortable and confident in because it was entirely made up of clothes I loved.  Isn't it sad that that wouldn't be a given? That so much of our closet space is often taken up by clothes we don't even like?

I've done a ton of reading and pinterest-browsing in the search for what constitutes a "happy closet," and I thought I would pass along the steps I've identified in how to make that transition without losing your mind...  Going from our fast-fashion, cluttered-closet, shopping-as-a-hobby** culture to a curated collection of favorites is a pretty seismic shift, but it IS possible to cut down on waste and clutter, and achieve a capsule wardrobe* that you love, without being overwhelmed.  I promise!

* Capsule wardrobe, dahhhling, is just fa-SHUN speak for "mix-and-matchable."


**  Please note, I love shopping!  But now I shop in the spirit of looking-for-new favorites, which as you will discover below, are far more elusive creatures than you might previously have imagined.

Note:  This series is for non-models and other "normal" females, who like to look good without spending ridiculous amounts of time and money on it.  Hence the "rest of us" in the title.  If you are a model or otherwise making your career out of fa-SHUN, just go ahead and stop reading now... you can always guest post instead!  ;)

Ready?  Here we go!
 
Step 1:  Recognize that you want your own wardrobe, not somebody else's.  A friend of mine told me how she found a pair of shoes she really liked, at a price she liked even better, but that she didn't get them because she knew someone else who already owned them... deep down, the call to be unique is strong in each of us!  This is part of why I can't stand the "15 pieces you MUST own" type of lists... the things I "need" to own are going to be different than the things you "need" to own, because we each have different occupations and environments, different ideas of comfort, and, oh yeah, what I wear to feel confident and at ease is very likely different from what you do.  So, the first thing to do is to determine what you like to wear (actually LIKE to wear) and go from there.  Pinterest can be a fun tool for this, but it can also suck you into a confusing abyss of "oh that's so pretty... and this is so cute too... and oh my gosh, that's the best yet..." so this is also the time to realize that just because something looks good doesn't mean you want to own it. 

Shift your perspective to realize that you can admire something, and find it visually satisfying, without wanting to claim it as part of your identity by putting it on your body.  Being more deliberate in curating your clothing collection can be a game-changer in terms of attitude, enjoyment, and confidence!
 
An example -- I love the artsy, dreamy, "boho" look, but what that look communicates isn't what I'm most interested in saying about myself.  I actually feel like a flowery, filmy imposter when I wear it, so it certainly doesn't add to my confidence!  But I can love it on other people, in the same way that I can admire art at a gallery without necessarily wanting to buy each piece.

Your assignment:  Tonight, or this weekend if you're going to need more time to deal with it (set an alert on your phone so you don't forget!), count how many items are hanging in your closet.  This is just a starting place, so make a note of the number and move on.  Then, go through each item, and pull out your favorite pieces.  How many things can you definitively identify as favorites?  Is there a theme?  Color, style, brand, comfort factor, or otherwise?  Right now, you are trying to determine your personal preferences, under all those layers of "but it was on sale," and "but my mother always told me I shouldn't wear such-and-such" and "but everyone in the office wears this kind of thing"...  What do you enjoy wearing?

When I did this experiment myself, I realized I like simple, minimalist combinations of color and style.  I like long silhouettes, clothes with unexpected details, and solid colors.  Oh, and stripes.  I really like stripes.  I love neutrals (white, grey, black, not big on khaki), and gravitate towards red, turquoise, and blue.  


Need a visual?  Here's a fifteen-piece collection in my creative-indie style that can be mixed and matched into FORTY-FIVE different outfits! (keep scrolling for shop-able links...)

Done with Konmari? You're ready for this! The ultimate step-by-step guide to finding your personal style and having a capsule wardrobe! Wondering how to make a capsule wardrobe -- how to figure out your style? I've got fashion advice for a curated closet that will never be boring! via Devastate Boredom



Similar Wardrobe with Shop-able Links!



But what about you?  Do you like patterns?  Florals?  Lace?  Collars?  Sweetheart necklines?  All of this is data you're collecting on yourself.  

(Pssssst!  Check out this post... if you tell me your style and color preferences, I'll help you brainstorm a capsule wardrobe to fit your own needs!)

When you have finished, leave your favorite clothes clustered together in one section of your closet, for ease of access going forward.

Done with that?  Assuming that you are now tired and/or have other things to do than play with your clothes all day, you can wait until tomorrow to... do the exact same thing with your folded clothes.  ;)  Then check and see - do the "favorites" from your dresser fall in line with your closet favorites?  The end result should be at least a drawer and a section of your closet full of "favorite" items... plan to wear favorites every day for a week.  Try to notice if it changes your mood and attitude to be wearing things you enjoy.  Does it speed up the morning selection time?  Do you identify anything new about what makes those items your favorites?

Confident, unique style is in reach for each of us!  I'm so excited about taking this fa-SHUN journey together.  Together we can curate and organize that closet into a thing of beauty... just like you!  



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Crazy Stuff I've Seen in Dallas TX: Sketchy Signs Edition

If you enjoy this post, be sure to check out my most recent edition... FREAKY Signs!  ;P  This place is weird!  Weird, I say!!

I'll admit, moving to Dallas has meant some mild culture shock.  Take this for example...  Dallas seems to have a rather impressive number of oddly named "stores of a certain type" if you take my meaning.  For example: 

"To go" as opposed to... condoms to stay?  Would that be like, some kind of in-house rental program?  Just... no.


What's under my bed?  Um, besides dust bunnies, a couple of monsters, and my secret stash of money because I don't trust banks, I guess you're expecting me to answer... condoms? 


And then there's this gem, clearly a legitimate business seeking employees on the up-and-up...

That one actually makes me sad, because it reminds me there are desperate enough for work that they'd look at that sign and go, "totally worth a shot."  That kind of sucks.  :(  I'm tempted to call that number and yell at them for trying to con poor innocent jobless people... but I'm not really the yelling type.  So, you do it and let me know how it goes!

And those are only the ones I was quick enough to capture with my phone's camera, so stay posted for more Crazy Dallas posts soon...!  And if you haven't already, hop over to check out my Cicadas will Rule the Earth post, with accompanying video... my dog thinks its hilarious.

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Monday Free Music Madness: Yo-Yo Ma Album! 8 Classical Cello Tracks, Ave Maria, Meditation from Thais, legal MP3 downloads

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Mondays are better with new free music!

This week we have a really wonderful free album download, from the renowned cellist Yo-Yo Ma!  The Sound of Yo-Yo Ma features eight tracks, including the breathtaking Meditation from Thais (if you don't know it by name you'll recognize it when you hear it... either that or you've been living under a rock all your life... come out from under the rock!  The sun is out, and there is beautiful music to be had for FREE!), Dona Nobis Pacem, and Ave Maria, along with five other classical pieces featuring the cello.

Snag it today!  This will make a wonderful addition to the Music for Focus and Contemplation collection we began last week... if you haven't already, hop over to that post for a free Celtic album, a free new age electronica album, and more!  :)


Linking up with Mama Moment Mondays, Making Your Home Sing, Not Just Homemaking, Works for Me WednesdayFellowship Friday, and Good Morning Mondays!
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Friday Frivolity, Puppeh Edition: Funny DOGS and Funny PUPPIES and SO MUCH CUTE!

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It's Friday at last!  Here's a little Frivolity... we all know you've earned it! 

Cats having had their moment last week, today we feature Puppehs!



Was that you this week?  Hopefully not, but especially for all those teachers going back to school it might have been... we love you teachers!


Puppies plus babies = double win on the cuteness scale.  


Oh we are Puppeh.  Oh we are!


amazingphel:

my mum asks me to show her this almost every day

I'm pretty sure this is actually a fuzzy tap-dancing robot...

On that note we must leave you... have a happy weekend!



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Guest Book Review: The Wedding Wager, aka, "Car Crash with Destiny"

After my life-long bestie Samantha York regaled me with a hilarious description of the book she was currently reading, I just knew I needed to have her guest post with a review!  Enjoy!


Hilarious review of The Wedding Wager, or a car wreck with destiny -- Samantha Says READ or DON'T Read book recommendations via Devastate Boredom
A Review of The Wedding Wager, or as I would have called it, "A Car Wreck with Destiny"
By Samantha York

As a habitual insomniac, I've seen the wrong side of midnight one too many times. We're not talking about productive, crazy-genius awakeness a la Nikola Tesla. On the contrary, it's stubborn restlessness of mind that refuses to be entertained. In these moments I prowl through the free offerings on Amazon's kindle bookstore, braving archaic texts and the un-famous undead. While I'm not entirely above a Harlequin-esque romance, I generally stick to the ones billed as sweet and clean by reviewers. Although in this case, they entirely missed tagging it as "idiotically unrealistic."



The book is called The Wedding Wager. The gist is as follows. All alone in the world, freshly discharged from a six month hospital ordeal following a catastrophic car wreck, 20 something Megan answers an obscure want ad searching for a "personal secretary."  Feeling alone in the world and like she has no other choice, she hops unquestioningly into the limo sent for her. Because, after a whole hour spent looking at want ads, she clearly has no other options. /sarcasm. Does she end up on the 11 pm news? Kidnapped? Sold into slavery?


No! *spoilers ahead.* She ends up married to a billionaire! A young handsome billionaire who is going to pay all her hospital bills! All she has to do is look pretty! And spend his thousands on new designer clothes! And pretend to love him! Until....surprise! They aren't pretending anymore. It's worse than Disney princesses, y'all! I kept at it, page after page, hoping for a plot twist, a surprise, anything. But no deviation from the formula was to be had. Even an angry, verbally abusive father-in-law could not thwart the moral of this sugary tale.


And what was the moral of the story? Thousands of dollars in hospital debt justifies answering sketchy job postings and completely ignoring common sense. These behaviors never end badly! They end up with billionaire husbands! Now go forth and conquer, my fellow women!


No really don't. Please don't. I don't want to see your tragic end on my tv set tonight. Be bold enough to look past the iffy, glitzy offers and make a wise decision instead!



We hope you enjoyed that edition of "What not to read," with Samantha and Sarah!  Check out more Samantha Says and READ / DON'T Read book reviews here... And if that book was actually right up your ally and you're excited we brought it to your attention, check it out on Amazon.  It's currently free!  And as we hear, the first in a riveting series.  ;)





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